Have you ever been asked to do something you have never done before and was beyond your comfort zone? Recently my daughter asked me to build a set of benches. I have never built furniture from scratch, so we spent time planning out the design and the materials we’d need. After the planning, the time came when I had to actually take the saw off the shelf and make the first cut. Then the second. And so on.
Since I had to build two benches, I learned from the first. Cutting the timbers for the second bench was not as intimidating because we had gained the confidence from the first.
Once we assembled the bench, we realized that additional support was needed so more material was bought and more cuts were made. We adjusted. It was a lot of effort but when we look at the final product, we are glad that we took the initiative to build these benches.
In the past year, Calvary Burlington has supported three missions trips for people who were going to places and doing things outside of their comfort zone. We also just completed a week of Forest Cliff Day Camp, where kids from the schools surrounding our church had the opportunity (some for the first time!) to hear about Jesus. These outreaches are all part of the disciple-making process.
The fall is upon us. Let’s get serious about our Lord’s command to make disciples. Let’s come out to Equip on the first Wednesday night of the month to learn more about the four core habits that help people grow (based out of Darryl Dash’s book). Get involved in Lifegroups to spur one another on to grow. Ladies, join the Tuesday evening Bible study to be built up in the faith. Men, start rubbing shoulders with other men through our monthly men’s ministry. Students, you have an incredible Wednesday night program to help you grow. Do one task in the church. Start serving in one ministry. Do one thing.
This fall, let’s build a bench. Start by making the first cut and go from there. If it works, you will have a bench. If not, ask others for help. Make adjustments. Buy more lumber. Just like I got better at making benches by doing, together we’ll get better at making disciples when we step out in faith and begin.
Peter Klahsen, Elder Chair
Recently I listened to a very engaging podcast about something called The Curse of Knowledge. Have you heard that term? The curse of knowledge occurs when we assume that the person we’re speaking with has the background or the context to understand the content of what we’re saying. They might understand the words that are spoken but are missing information to make it relevant and meaningful.
How does the curse of knowledge manifest itself in church life?
A guest arrives for the first time with kids in tow. Where do they go? Where do their kids go, and when?
The curse of knowledge is that I know where to go, and how to check my kids into the program. If I’m a bit late, I don’t worry — the doors will still be open, and the kids don’t actually start their program until 10:15.
We all know that.
The kids are dismissed for their program downstairs. A newcomer wonders what is ‘downstairs’, and when will they get their kids back?
The curse of knowledge is that I have seen the classrooms and I have met all the teachers. I know they are trained and amazing, and that my kids will be waiting to be picked up after the service.
We all know that.
Communion is set at the front of the church; will I have to walk up and get it or will it be delivered and, if so, do I take it right away or do I hang onto it?
The curse of knowledge is that we celebrate communion every month, and there is rarely any variance in how we do it. They pray and pass the plates, while I sit and receive.
We all know that.
Every time you find yourself saying, “We all know that!”, the curse of knowledge is rearing its ugly head. And to guests, the curse of knowledge can be awkward, ambiguous, confusing, and unwelcoming.
One of the many things I love about our Frontline Ministry team is that they help to break the curse of knowledge by keeping an eye out for guests and helping them to pre-navigate any obstacles.
You came alone and don’t know where to sit? No problem! Let me get you settled near someone who I know to be friendly. Heck, you can even sit with me!
You brought kids? They’ll love it here! Let’s go to the welcome centre and get them registered, then we’ll give you a quick tour of the kids min area. Maybe introduce you to Tanya, the best Children’s Director ever.
You came early to get the lay of the land? So glad you did! Have a cup of coffee or tea, and let me introduce you to a few people.
You came late because you're feeling nervous and unsure? We understand, and we’re watching for the rules of engagement so that we don’t overwhelm you.
Isn’t it great that we have a team of ushers, greeters and welcome centre people who can help overcome the curse of knowledge?
Well, I have a secret to tell you…
You don’t have to serve in an official capacity in order to fight the curse.
That's right, each one of us can play a vital role in the guest experience by keeping your eyes open, being available, and modelling for them what a typical Sunday looks like.
So write your name on the friendship clip. Pour yourself a coffee. Introduce your kids to their kids so they can be dismissed together to their class. If you are a Sunday School teacher, introduce yourself to the parents even if you’re not serving that particular Sunday. The next time they come you might be serving, and how awesome it will be when the kids have already met you!
The curse of knowledge is inevitable to some degree, but we can all play a part in breaking down barriers and helping our guests feel welcomed, loved, and in-the-know.
See you Sunday! The service starts at 10am and free coffee is served at 9:30am. We all know that...
Before our times of celebration around the Communion table this summer, we reviewed the theological importance of what we were doing. They were good reminders and I pray that they were helpful for what we do regularly at Calvary.
The purpose behind reviewing these fundamental principles was to introduce a change to the way that we serve communion. For years at Calvary, our Elders have faithfully served communion along with other men in our church, and I want to thank them for their faithful service to the body of Christ. During the spring, we reviewed the meaning of the Lord’s Supper, a question surfaced: Who should serve the two elements that we take together?
As we look at the Bible, Scripture gives no explicit teaching on who should distribute the elements of Communion, so we are left simply to decide what is wise and appropriate for the benefit of the believers in our church. The Elders have reviewed this topic over the last few months, and beginning this Sunday you will see both men and women participating in the serving of the elements to the church.
Just as has been our practice, one Elder (including myself) will lead the distribution of the bread and cup, and our servers will be people from our congregation who are walking in fellowship with God and each other, and who use their serving gifts to bless the church. Frankly, we believe that there is no biblical reason why only Elders or leaders, or only men, should distribute the elements. As Wayne Grudem summarises, Would it not speak much more clearly of our unity and spiritual equality in Christ if both men and women, for example, assisted in distributing the elements of the Lord’s supper.
I am looking forward to this weekend where we will all participate in the beautiful expression of Christ’s sacrifice for us. If you have any questions, you are invited to contact us.
As you prepare you hearts for worship on Sunday, we are praying that the time gathered around the Lord’s Supper as men and women would be worshipful, celebratory and encouraging. What a joy it is to remember the price that our Saviour, Jesus Christ, paid for our forgiveness and future hope.
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