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Maple Syrup and Building Gospel Relationships



As we came out of the house earlier this week, we were greeting by what I hope will be the last snow of the year. The temperatures are getting warmer and visitors are heading to the various Maple Syrup festivals with the promise of fresh syrup and pancakes.

Here’s a little window in your pastor - I love pancakes and fresh maple syrup.  

There’s just something about the “maplely-sweetness” with a fresh cup of coffee that I love.  I enjoyed accompanying Parker’s school class last spring to the sugar shack at Mountsberg. And while they didn’t serve pancakes, we did get a taste of fresh syrup.

An acquaintance of mine makes his own syrup. He lives on a piece of property outside London will a forest full of maple trees and he thought he would try his hand at making his own “maplely-sweet goodness”. But he is finding that the work is very intensive. He is not averse to hard work but did you know that it takes 40 litres of sap to make 1 litre of syrup?  That’s a lot of trekking through the bush, hauling pails, and spending time boiling it down. Maple syrup is precious not only because of the taste but also because of the work involved in producing it.

This reminds me of the hard work of making relationships with people who don’t know Jesus….. yet. It takes a lot of time and energy to develop friendships and relationships that might eventually end up in some sort of spiritual conversation and gospel presentation.  

Jesus said that we are to “make disciples” (Matt 28) as we are going about our life. But how can we be making disciples if we are not doing the work of being connected to people who might never know the powerful love of Jesus? I think we can become very complacent - and dare I say, spiritually lazy by just keeping to our safe little groups and never working, talking and sharing life with people who have never heard the message of Jesus.  Jesus spent his time with people who didn’t know about God’s love for them – and he prioritized his time to be with those people and share the message of the Kingdom of God.   

It might take less than a 40:1 ratio of relationships to spiritual conversations but the work is hard nonetheless.  People need to know that they are loved and cared for before they will open up their hearts and minds to the significant questions that Jesus is asking us to ask of people. 

So, let me close with a three questions to make us think today…

Are you committed to obeying Jesus command to “make disciples”?  It all starts here… I talk a lot about this question here at Calvary but if we don’t believe it that we need to obey Jesus, then we can stop the discussion here.

But if you do believe it (and I really hope you do) , here’s a couple more questions….

Where are you intentionally finding time in your schedule to be with people who don’t know Jesus?  This might require a change in your calendar and prioritize but it is worth it. Yes, it will be counter-cultural, especially when we need live by the ethics and values of the Kingdom, but we can live wisely without giving in to sin or unwise behaviour.

Are we asking people the right questions?  It’s one thing to spend our time with people who don’t know Jesus but there is going to come a time where we are going to have to ask questions about spiritual life and eternity.  Are you doing this? If we truly believe that issues of faith in Jesus are critical, we need to be asking these questions in love.

So, when you are enjoying your maple syrup this spring, think about the work that went into making it and then compare that work with working to build relationships with people who don’t know Jesus.  By faith, when they do respond to the Gospel, the reward will be sweet and all the praise goes to Jesus to is at work in you and His church.

Pastor Aaron Groat

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Hang Your Hat Moments



There are times in youth ministry where you “hang your hat”. When times are tough, you look to those moments, where you've hung your hat, and remember that what you're doing is good and important. Well, I am not in a slump right now, but I had one of those “hang your hat” moments at SnoCamp this year.

Spiritual temperature can be hard to gauge in youth ministry. Students don't always give you insight into their walk, and so, as youth ministry leaders, we try to gauge the spiritual health of our group in different ways. This was a big question for our ministry last fall, trying to gain some insight into the spiritual lives of our students. One of the things that came from that conversation was the desire to see our kids in God's Word. So, at the start of the year I challenged our kids to make 2019 the year they get to know God better. And to do that, I asked them to pick a book of the Bible, read it start to finish, then answer three questions:

  1. What does this book teach me about God?
  2. What does this book teach me about His plan?
  3. What do I do with it?

Once they completed their reading, and these questions, we'd go our for a coffee, or a snack, and discuss the book they just read. Well, if any of you have students, you know it can be hard to get them to do anything that involves reading. So, since I issued this challenge back at the start of January, I've been out with one of our students, and am in talks to grab a coffee with another, but it's been hard to gauge how the challenge is going. That is, until SnoCamp, one of those moments that I'm gonna “hang my hat” on.

We were sitting down on the Saturday night, after session, in our small groups. Saturday night is always the big message. That's your Gospel presentation, sometimes with altar call. It's a longer message, longer worship time, and it really works to create an atmosphere where teens can really engage with God. So during our small group time we were discussing the questions for that session, and out of that conversation I started to hear our students talk in a way I hadn't before. Simple phrases, but huge encouragement for me, and huge insight into their walk.

“I was reading in (insert book of the Bible here) that it says ...”

Maybe that doesn't seem like a lot to you, but wow did my heart start pumping! Actual audible proof that our students are reading the Bible! And it wasn't just one, I would hear this multiple times over the course of that weekend. It's a small thing, but it showed me that our students are getting to know God better, and you gotta smile at that, and I'm going to be hanging my hat on those moments. God is at work, and it's a privilege to be along for the ride.     

When you see our students on Sunday, encourage them, and ask them what book they chose for the challenge. And if they don't have an answer, maybe recommend a book to them. What's your favourite book from the Bible? Which book taught you about God and his plan? Encourage our students to be in God's word. Or, if this is something you struggle with, then I challenge you to join our Student Ministries. Pick a book of the Bible, and answer the three questions above. I'd love to have a conversation about the book you read.

As always, thank you for the opportunity to serve our church in this way.

Mike Sanders, Youth Director at Calvary Baptist Church

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Prayer Wall



Teaching children about prayer is important as they grow in their knowledge and understanding of God. Prayer is communicating or just talking with God, and through prayer we can meet God and share our thoughts, feelings, praises and requests.

For the spring quarter in Sunday school we are bringing back our prayer wall. In the past we have used this space as an opportunity to engage our children in learning about prayer. Each week we share any news and then we draw or print any prayer requests and attach them to our prayer wall. It has been a great way to talk about prayer and have the children involved. They get to see our prayer wall grow each week with messages of thankfulness, notes of praise and requests for help. Even our teachers add to the wall. It’s good for children to see prayer modelled and to see others participating. We regularly check back to see which prayers God has answered and celebrate His faithfulness.

Some other ideas I have come across or used in teaching are:

  • Keeping a prayer journal. We have used this one in Sunday school when one of our teachers started it for our grade 1-5 class.
  • The ‘five finger prayer’ – There are a number of variations, but essentially each finger represents something to pray for.
  • Using verses or passages of scripture in prayer.
  • Singing part of a song in prayer.
  • Prayer prompts or prayer starters for younger children are a great way to help them get started.
  • Popcorn prayers- Everyone just says their prayer request or praise out loud.

My hope is that children learn that God is near and that He cares about the details of their lives. They can talk to Him at anytime and anywhere. Whether it is a quick prayer in the car, a prayer about something in the school yard or prayer around the dinner table- God wants to hear from us!

Here are some wonderful verses about prayer that I had to include: 

And this is the confidence that we have toward Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us.
1 John 5:14

Pray without ceasing. Thessalonians 5:17

Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has power as it is working. James 5:16

Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. Colossians 4:2

And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith. Matthew 21:22

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made know to God. Philippians 4:6

Likewise, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. Romans 8:26

What are some of the ways you pray or talk with God? I'd love to hear about them. 

Tanya Chant, Family and Children's Director

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